Mona Amini

When I was a small child, I had no interest in 'girls' toys, and I always liked soccer balls and wanted to live like the boys did. In Afghanistan, I knew that life for men and boys was very easy and comfortable because they could wear whatever they wanted, go outside the house, play with their friends, study and do many things in life very easily and comfortably, not like us. They didn't have any fear because of their gender, because in Afghanistan, the priority was always the men.

My only dream was to be a boy so that I could play football, so that I could achieve my dream, and so it was very difficult. When I grew up, I wanted to dress like boys so that everyone would think I was a boy and I could play football in the streets and parks of Kabul city without being troubled or harassed. Unfortunately, this decision of mine was very problematic for me and my family within the local community. I am lucky that my family understood me and cooperated with me so that I could achieve my dream. 

Football itself is like life itself for me. Football makes me breathe again and live happily again. All people have problems in their lives, but when they are interested in something and do it, it feels very good. Football is exactly the same for me. Football has always been very important to me, just as it is now. I've always wished for all the girls in Afghanistan to have the opportunity to participate in every discipline and sport available to them. Playing football was crucial for me because my dream was to represent my country on the national team. I wanted to fight for and serve my country, making my society and people proud through the sport. This dream motivated me to work harder and strive for success. Fortunately, the day came when I had the opportunity to play football for my country, and that day remains the best day of my life.

My journey from Afghanistan to where I am now has been filled with challenges and triumphs.

Growing up in a society where opportunities for girls were limited, I had to fight for my passion for football and the right to pursue my dreams. I faced many obstacles, but my determination to play the sport I loved kept me going. Eventually, I was able to leave Afghanistan, seeking a place where I could express myself freely and continue my journey in football. This transition was not easy, but it allowed me to connect with a wider community of athletes and supporters who shared my passion.

Along the way, I have worked hard to empower other girls, helping them to find their voice and pursue their own dreams in sports.   I was born in a country torn by war, where every day there were attacks from the Taliban, creating a very dangerous environment. I managed to escape from the Taliban, and I am immensely grateful for that. If it weren't for the help of some incredible people, I truly believe I wouldn't be alive today, and this applies not just to me but to my family as well. This experience has shaped my life and fueled my determination to make the most of the opportunities I have now.   I am proud to represent my country and to inspire others to follow their passions, just as I have. 

My journey has taught me resilience and the importance of community, and I remain committed to supporting girls in sports, ensuring they have the opportunities to succeed and shine. In my journey, I’ve had the amazing opportunity to play for the Arsenal academy twice, and I’ve also been the captain for both the under 17s and under 20s in the national team. Those experiences have been incredible and have really shaped my love for the game!  Now, I’m studying, living with my family, and playing soccer, which is incredibly important to me. I’m very happy and enjoying my life. I remind myself that I won’t be this young again, so it’s essential to enjoy life, even the small things.

I’m currently playing football in the NPL Women’s League for Marconi Stallions. Football means everything to me; it's not just a sport but a way to express myself and connect with others who share my passion. It gives me a sense of purpose and joy, and being part of a team helps me grow both as a player and as an individual. Every match is an opportunity to challenge myself and strive for excellence while also enjoying the camaraderie with my teammates.